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If They Wanted To, They Would—But Here’s Why That’s NOT the Full Truth
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If They Wanted To, They Would—But Here’s Why That’s NOT the Full Truth

The real reason people don’t show up for you, why it has nothing to do with your worth, and how to stop internalizing their behavior.

If they wanted to, they would”—we hear this phrase all the time. But what if the truth is deeper? What if the way people treat you is a reflection of them, not you? In this episode, we break down:

  • Why people don’t always show up (even if they care).

  • The #1 mindset shift that stops you from chasing validation.

  • How to recognize when it’s time to walk away—without guilt.

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